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♥ Friday, November 23, 2012

Well, xinmsn has always been my "news media", for me to check up the lates news, when i want to log into my hotmail...haha
and reading "lifestyle article" is part of the parcel...LOL
anw,
so i came across this article 8 more reasons people cheat,
well, not going into details,
but according to the article,
it weighs down to these 8 reasons:
1. New smells get old- "no matter how hot you are, once you’ve handled them buck naked, new always gets old."
2. Monogamy is a mountain too high for some
3. Boredom- "boredom isn't as shallow as it sounds. It probably does get dead boring and the actual routine of same old, same old is worse when lived by the day than when penning it down."
4. Cheap thrills- "Cheating may feel liberating initially and the secrecy and sneaking around can be intoxicating."
5. Hormones- "hormones are to blame for avowing monogamy then crossing over in a split second lapse of judgement"
6. Instant decisions- "Most of the time, infidelity is driven by circumstances and a hormonal reaction to a stimulus"
7. Temptation to escape- "Don’t underestimate escapism as a powerful aphrodisiac. It pushes us to consider the merits of forgetting reality, for a while."
8. Having no willpower- "'Willpower' and 'self-restraint' have lost a lot of credibility these days. Research says they don’t curb the cheating heart."

You can read more from here 8 more reasons people cheat (can click on the link)
ok,
i don't know why i sound like i'm advertising for it,
but no,
i'm not...
lol

and that's not my main point,
bascially,
i was just reading through quite mindlessly (most of the time i'm not even processing what some of the points mean in details, especially when the elaborations are long...oops)
but this particular short paragraph caught my attention...

"Remember, our life comprises of more than just loving someone. Don’t make someone your entire reason for living. Don’t give them the full power of destroying your whole life. But do give them enough of your soul that you feel they complete you emotionally. Realise that being with someone is not about making them or the union perfect (it probably can never be), it’s about shared moments, mutual love, respect, trust, affection, care and concern."

...and that's what i always believe in!!!
haha
what about you??? =))

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