Friendships,are really like plant...
every start of a new friendship is like planting a new seed...
our chat everyday to keep each other update,
is like we gotta water the seed everyday...
outing trip once in a while,
is like giving the seedling fertilizer...
slowly,
day by day,
the seedling grow up to a young plant,
and it indicate how every friendship grew stronger...
thunders and storms,
indicate the quarrel we have with our friends sometimes...
if we can't compromise and give in after awhile,
the friendship will end here somehow,
just like the young plant will die, if it can't withstand the storm...
but if we can overcome it,
our friendship will sure be stronger,
just like the young plant, which withstand the storm, will become sturdier...
we don't get to grow a tree in 1 year or 2 years,
just like a friendship won't be very stable after just mere 1 or 2 years...
when we start to meet up less with our friends,
we will start to drift apart,
and our friendship will start to weaken,
just like you stop fertilizing your plant, and giving it nutrient,
you will realize it might not be as healthy...
and when chat become minimal,
it indicate that you water your plant less often,
and so,
your is friendship fading...
when you eventually stop talking to your friends,
you will soon come to term that your friendship is over,
just like when you stopped watering your young plant,
you're actually pronouncing that your plant is dead...
but there's actually hope...
if you discover early,
with patient,
and constant contact again,
you might save back the on-the-verge-of-losing friendship
just like constant care and patient,
you can actually revive the-gonna-die young plant...
but if it's really late,
by the time you realize and regret,
you start texting your friends again,
regardless how many you send,
no matter how hard you tried,
the friendship wont't ever be the same again,
just like no matter how much nutrient and water you gave to the dead plant,
it might not revive again...
you may try planting the same plant again,
but it's not guarantee that it'll turn out exactly like what you've expected before,
just like you might be able to start chatting and texting your friends constantly again,
but the friendship might not be the same again...
so stop envying how others can have such strong unwavering friendship with their friends,
cos everyone of us is capable of having one too...
it really depends on how much time you are willing to put in in nurturing that "friendship plant"...
just bear this in mind:
how long a seed takes to grow into a big sturdy tree,
is exactly how long it takes to form a strong and unwavering friendship with your friends...
it never hurt to send at least ONE text, in a week, to friends you wanna treasure right?
KEEP IN TOUCH,
or you're gonna to LET IT GO...
Take cares, my friends!!! =))